2022.01.26 07:26 Anime772 Who here is into sea cakes in the afternoon on a Tuesday and midnight on a Sunday?
2022.01.26 07:26 Unlikely_Lead_6209 Solar powered illuminated real estate signs the future in Auckland now?
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2022.01.26 07:26 geochris123 I need Ritalin if someone can help please
2022.01.26 07:26 Angelajapan [1.26.22] Artist Names can now be entered in the status message
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2022.01.26 07:26 Broutythecat There's nothing wrong with dating with intention
Some comments to the recent post about recognizing avoidant attachment traits in potential partners got me thinking. And I know this makes me sound old, but I'm at an age where I'm no lonter interested in flings and casual relationships.
There's a perspective according to which it's bad and 'not secure' to want to be selective when it comes to potential partners, or that it's some kind of attack on the potential partner's character, but I strongly disagree. On the contrary: I think it's absolutely secure to date with intention, being clear on what you want and what you're looking for in a relationship, and screening out partners that are not a match.
It's not personal. It doesn't mean 'I don't want insecure partners because they're bad / unlovable / evil'. My DA ex was a lovely, kind person and I loved him dearly, and he treated me well and cared for me. But none of that was enough to compensate for the fundamental incompatibility in terms of emotional availability and interest in emotional and practical commitment, so a relationship between us just couldn't work.
There are many great people who are incompatible for eminently practical reasons, and this is a fundamental one when it comes to romantic relationships. To me it's a deal-breaker, so it might as well come to light as soon as possible.
There are no absolutes 'right or wrong'. There's only what you want and what they want, and both things are valid, but they need to match. Kind of like, if you are absolutely sure you want children, you might want to screen out as soon as possible partners who are very adamant that they don't. It doesn't mean they're a bad person or you're a bad person for wanting different things. It's not personal. It's just a fundamental incompatibility between you two and both might be better off finding a more suitable partner.
In an ideal world, everyone would be clear and straightforward from the get-go about their emotional status and their intentions about commitment, but since that's not the case, we might have to find ways to figure it out without being told outright. Even more when someone comes on strong at first / lovebombs only to do a total about-face after months have been invested. Already the lack of clarity and inability to be straightforward, even if it doesn't stem from outright deceit, would be a deal-breaker for me at my age.
There's nothing wrong with being clear on your intentions and wishes when it comes to relationships and not wanting to invest months on a partner only to then be blindsided when the fundamental incompatibility finally does come to light.
Granted, maybe a secure person will automatically pick up on the incompatibility and move on without the need for bullet points and specific clues to look for. But if someone isn't at that point yet there's no shame in needing pointers and some guidance in identifying potential deal-breakers.
I actually think this is a very secure approach, as opposed to clinging on no matter what to any shred of connection with anyone, without any thought to long-term compatibility, either squashing your fundamental needs or hoping they will one day change theirs.
There's nothing wrong with being clear and honest about what you want and searching for a partner that wants the same. It's not about 'finding a perfect partner', it's about finding someone who's compatible with you, which is imho a necessary foundation for a relationship.
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2022.01.26 07:26 TheFlamingoid Neon lights again [Kodak V3 500T • ECN-2 • Horseman 985 • Topcor 105/3.5]
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2022.01.26 07:26 von_Kartoffel Gibt es einen subreddit für Beamte?
2022.01.26 07:26 MithrasReddit Turkey ranks 3rd highest in Twitter content removal requests, says company
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2022.01.26 07:26 polemosP This was crawling on my hand while I was in my bedroom, should I be worried?
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2022.01.26 07:26 OtherTarget What's your take?
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2022.01.26 07:26 joachim_s Anyone experiencing problems with your games after Win 11 update?
2022.01.26 07:26 hendriX_kandba I drunk texted my ex last night woke up and saw the texts and she saw them and I'm sitting not sure If I should explain them to her or just bury them and act like it never happened
The texts were mostly repetition of I miss us and I fucked up that sort of thing and the thing is we didn't even have a fight we just sort of went quite for a couple of months with no actual reason for breaking up so its just very weird to even start up that conversation
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2022.01.26 07:26 lilswae Do ppl not really fw sleep paralysis?
I don’t listen to leaks regularly, I don’t like to support them, I do when they pop up on my feed or when I see a song mentioned a lot in this sub but I never see sleep paralysis being mentioned ever in convos about unreleased stuff. It’s probably my favourite song ever, despite the bad mix. But do y’all like the song or nah?
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2022.01.26 07:26 figz15 Open mic nights
Anyone know of any open mic nights around the area or open jams? I’m sure covid killed a bunch. Hoping some have come back though. I’m Guitar playesinger In the area. Looking to meet some fellow jammers.
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2022.01.26 07:26 attila_85 How to use builders wand in skyfactory 4
2022.01.26 07:26 dogefc Protest outside Goodison at 7pm tonight
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2022.01.26 07:26 godoflemmings I need 36 hours in the day pls
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2022.01.26 07:26 Frostfall76 Took a stab at a character model, need to work on making the textures more seamless and real but happy with the result!
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2022.01.26 07:26 Not_Unlisted Hyped for jjk 0 just for the maki and gojo scenes😍
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2022.01.26 07:26 ddoeth Friesen in Not - Der Pferdeversteher von Nordstrand | Die Nordreportage | NDR Doku
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2022.01.26 07:26 amiro7600 Anyone ever just- forget to upload a chapter?
I'd just finished chapter 5 of my recently started series, and went to Ao3 to both check on how the series is going and to upload chapter 5. But when i went to the chapter index I only saw chapters 1, 2 and 3. I had to do a double take before i realised i just hadn't uploaded it, and i'd just proofread it and moved on to another project.
Im just mad because its been sat in my google docs for a month, when instead it could have been drawing in more readers (chapter 4 has some hints to some big reveals im planning later on)
Anyone else done this? My friends tell me its probably a common thing but it doesn't make me feel less like a fool
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2022.01.26 07:26 seanlocke139 Possible abduction?
I don't know if this is allowed by the rules so I apologize if not.
I grew up in an area where I've seen a lot of weird things. I've seen a 10 foot tall black figure on an ATV trail when it was getting close to nightfall. I've seen 3 lights the size of a country road rotating in a circle in fog above the same village. But this is definitely the strangest and scariest to me.
About 1 1/2 months ago I think I might have gotten abducted. It was about 2-3 AM and I was lying in bed. I fell asleep pretty quick but then my eyes shot open quickly which is pretty off for me to do. I saw this thing standing above me in my living room. It had a Head like an owl with 6 black eyes. When the light from my TV hit its eyes they had a shade of red. It stood at about 8 feet from what I guess. All I remember seeing was its head sadly. It leaned down and got right into my face. I couldn't move at all but I felt fear like I never have before. My eyes shut and when they opened again I was somewhere else. I was in a white room and I could barely see because of how bright it was. I saw these old computer looking things with red and green lights blinking. My eyes shut again until I woke up the next morning way earlier than normal.
It still scares me and I can't fall asleep without some light on. I'm normally fearless. I don't know what happened and part of me isn't sure if I want to know. But I feel empty not knowing if this was something real or not. It felt very real. The fear that I feel in that moment and right now is very real.
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2022.01.26 07:26 _unrealized_reality_ Kapp’n just chillin
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2022.01.26 07:26 Greyhound96 Mitrazapine (Rameron) Withdrawal advice
Hi, I’ve been on Mitrazapine since June last year. Decided to taper with my Doc from November till start of Jan after feeling much better.
Tomorrow will be my third week off them.
Just looking for advice and thoughts on how other people got through it.
Sex Drive- non existent Sleep- up and down. One day rough sleep next a good one. Up throughout the night Mood swings Appetite fluctuations Fluctuating waves of depression but nothing I can’t manage
Just want a time frame really and how long it took everyone to get through it
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